BOOKS

Choosing yourself changes everything.

Whether you’re navigating modern dating, learning to trust yourself, or simply looking for a different perspective, these books invite you to slow down, reflect, and choose yourself.

Available in both English and Norwegian.

I CHOOSE ME
A different way to date

Modern dating isn’t about being chosen. It’s about choosing yourself.

I CHOOSE ME is a warm, honest, and thought-provoking collection of reflections on dating, self-worth, attraction, and personal growth. Through humor, vulnerability, and insight, Henriette Roka explores what happens when you stop seeking validation and start trusting yourself.

Because the most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one with yourself.

Exclusive to the Expanded English Edition

  • Three bonus chapters

  • New stories

  • More dating adventures

  • Additional reflections not included in the original book

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JEG VELGER
En annen måte å date på

En bok for deg som er lei av å jage - og klar til å velge.

JEG VELGER er en ærlig og varm bok om moderne dating, selvfølelse, relasjoner og det å stå stødig i seg selv.

Gjennom humor, gjenkjennelse og personlige refleksjoner viser Henriette Roka hvordan livet forandrer seg når du slutter å vente på og bli valgt - og begynner å velger deg selv.

For den viktigste personen som noen gang skal velge deg, er deg selv.

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STILL CHOOSING ME
The conversation doesn’t end with the last page.

If you enjoyed I Choose Me, you’ll find even more stories, reflections and dating adventures here.

Every bonus chapter can be read on its own — or collected over time.

BONUS CHAPTERS

Exclusive bonus chapters available separately.

📖 1: Tinder Time Machine - English
Ever wondered who you’re actually meeting after swiping right?

49 NOK
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📖 1: Tinder Tidsmaskin - Norsk
Har du noen gang lurt på hvem du egentlig møter etter at du har sveipet til høyre?

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